The Waffle Date

So it was one of the random sweet cravings again and I've been telling him how I feel like having waffles. Brought him to Dhoby Ghaut for Creative Waffles but me being the lost child, didn't know how to get there so he took the lead instead. Nothing new there! 

We both had own our plates, I got the most chocolatey one while he had the waffle stacker with Ice cream. It was good. Came here with the girls before so I knew that the waffles were nice. He agreed too!

Nothing beats good food and of course, the wonderful company! <3 div="">

I should be doing my RJ. 

1st year.

It's been a year now... The thought of not having you around, not able to see you, not able to talk to you, hear your advises still hurts. I'm still sorry for not able to do alot of things with you.. Maybe it's because im at your house and everything's flashing back in my head, it hurts more. Watching the show just now, her granddad was giving her a teddy bear and was talking to her, i missed you more. I just miss you. Simple. I miss you. Alot. So much.

I love you.

Atok,
  Yaya pass Year 1 Yaya. Atok mesti suka kan? Yaya da habis da year 1. Lagi 2 weeks yaya start Year 2. Skejap je seh. haha. G.P.A yaya tak bagus sangat tapi yang penting yaya habis setahun kan? Kalau atok ade  kat sini... agak agak ape atok cakap? Mesti atok bilang yaya " bagus tu, girl kena belajar rajin rajin. kesian bapak kerja siang malam carik duit. nanti girl da habis skola da boleh dapat kerja bagus boleh tolong bapak pulak," Yaya  boleh imagine atok cakap gitu.

I Love You Atok! Take Care. Baik Baik kat sana! Yaya Rindu Atok! <3 p="">

Thankful, for you.

The past few weeks, months have not been easy. Everyone's still coping and trying to move on. Nenek's been quiet while Wak Mah has been trying to keep the mood up. Bibik's been a great companion too, to nenek at least. If only everyone would stop talking bad about her.

K's been by me throughout. I went back to school on the Monday after Atok's passing despite everyone asking me to take compassionate leave cause I didn't get much sleep. Everyone was giving condolences and asking if I'm alright and stuff, except K. 

He doesn't say a single word about the passing. He did, though, doodle sweet, comforting words, drawings in my phone and tries to distract me whenever I'm lost in my thoughts. Until today. We had a deep conversation over dinner. About losing someone dear. He didn't want to bring it up earlier cause he knew how I was feeling and didn't want to make me feel more sad. Sharing and talking with him made me feel better, after keeping all in. (I teared, I admit) And of course, his jokes liven up the mood a little.

"Truth is, it never feels alright losing a loved one."

The pain. Who feels? Me. So what do other people care. Just shooting words from their mouth. What do they care? They are not the one who's sick anyway. Chest pains. Back pains. Who feel? Me. Of course it's easy for them to say what they want. But please ah. Think of the one who's feeling the pain. It's not ngada ngada. But when i say i cannot do it means i cannot. Stop forcing me. Walking to school is the worst ever. With the smokers and all. They dont feel it but im the one who cannot breathe.

So how do i tell mum im having chest pains? Been feeling breathless these few days and i hate when i go to the clinic n they say oh not asthma. bloody hell! Then why am i feeling breathless idiot? Shouldnt u like at least be nice and tell me why im feeling breathless?!

Im scared to tell mum abt my chest pains cause i dowan to be troublesome to her. If i tell dad then he will get worried. If i tell abt the clinic thing then if they send me go hospital how? Ok one thing is im scared to go to the hospital. But tts nt the important part. I dowan to go to the hospital cause it will mean more money spent. Not to say we're poor or cannot afford but i know how dad sometimes need money too. And i feel bad even for going to the clinic twice what more the hospital?

Funny how i still feel like atok is around here somewhere.
And i still keep thinking about the dream. Atok's smile. Something i miss alot. (':